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Is it ok to engage in pre marriage sex?
This debate has been going on for several decades, and a clash of mindset occurs between those who believe sex should be done inside marriage, and those who take the more liberal side.  While I am not here to tell you which side to take, allow me [...]

Fall in love all over again with these vids.

Do you remember the time when you asked her to marry you?

The troubles of life like money, in-laws, kids, career can easily eclipse what you passionately have for each other..

Remember how things were when you started… life seems so simple… spend more time with each other… be [...]

One of the debatable issues among lovers is the time line of engagement. What is ideal? Long or short engagement?
Wifey and I had a long engagement. We courted for 9 years before we finally tie the knot. Well, early marriage is not an option  because I am jobless and still studying.
A question so often asked [...]

A “happy wife = a happy life”.  Simple but powerful statement. In my experience, life is pleasant when wife is happy and pleased. The sting of a scorned woman, or unhappy wife is not only awful, in some situation, it lasts a lifetime.
Man and woman are wired differently, and if man will recognize a woman’s [...]

Your answer to that reflects your own set of values about relationships, and to some extent, pre conceived ideas too.
But allow me to share my experience as a person married for 17 years (to date) to my former college professor who is 9 years older than me, ha ha.
When I started courting her on 1986, [...]